Got Asked Out on Valentine's Day!

I have just been asked out for Valentine's Day, yay! :D

Well actually, I've even been asked out twice. Don't get your hopes high - never will I - as none of these two pretenders are Tim, my fabulous encounter from last month. And neither of them is a prince charming or mister right type that I would spend a lovely and mellow evening with on February 14, to then end spending the rest of my life with them or hoping I would have spent the rest of my time with them.

Basically, they're both sexual interests. The first being a former fuck-buddy cruising back to NYC and who quite blatantly made it clear that he wouldn't mind seeing me again and have some fun. Subtle, very subtle... but, well, also good, very very good... I am weak, yes, I know. The second one is actually a more recent friend with whom we only had near misses... It seems like we could have gone at it from the start but every time we stopped it in its tracks. Timing wasn't right, other relationships weren't, one or another needed comfort more than sex, or a bunch of other reasons. It's actually unbelievable we haven't fucked so far, to the point that our friends don't even believe us when we say we haven't. Yet.

So, now the cruel dilemma. Which one do I pick. This is just mean. This is just for a fun night with a dinner, some drinks, and a very possible happy ending, but still: I don't like turning down good candidates.

I thought of meeting one of dedicating lunch and afternoon to my ex and dinner and the night to my future, but... somehow, as they know me, I'm pretty sure they would take the hint, so that would be as hurtful. Fun, but still a bit disrespectful for them. I think I'll have to pick one, and well, make it up to the other at some point (No, I won't pass! You're nuts? I've got 2 studs who are dying to fuck me and that I am dying to fuck, there's not a chance in hell I won't do them...)


So, what about you choose for me...

On my left, contestant number one is from latin-american descent, tall, with big black eyes, short black hair, smells like an angel and is a very passionate-though-slightly-dominant-lover, who the last time exhausted me so much I spent the day after sleeping in and called in sick at work (well, that, and also, I felt a bit sore...).
He's well behaved and educated, but I've come to learn that all his manners mean only one thing: I wanna screw you. He can be sometimes a bit impolite to other people, and his macho side is hurtful to other women. Nobody's perfect.
He likes dancing, salsa, hot food, hot chicks, hot cars...
Quite predictable, I guess, but you know that the service is as good as what you'd expect.

On my right, contestant number two is more of a mystery. He's a bit shorter, though not a dwarf (I don't like small guys much.., depends, but I prefere taller guys. Not necessarily very tall, but I need something. At least a half-head taller than me). He has brownish hair, cute smile, less of a macho guy and looks like he's coming right out of a Gap commercial. He's a gentleman under all pretenses, holds doors for me but others as well, helps ladies on the bus, is good with kids, and has the silent and strong calm of a huge teddy bear. I haven't slept with him yet, and I know a bit less about his personal life, but he seems like a straight. I mean, I know he's straight, but like a good guy.
He also has an advantage over contestant number 1, as he already told me part of the plan for the night - came prepared, good! - but hinted at some upcoming surprises - and they didn't all involved roaring at me and winking.


I have to say, contestant number 2 looks more like someone you'd want to go on a date with, have that first sparkles and stuff like that, you know. And I'm dying to know him more and finally sleep with him. BUT... contestant number 1, aahhhhhh. He really left me breathless a few times, and that counts a bit... And considering, like I said, that I don't plan on Valentine's Day 2010 to be the date I mean the love of my life, I could prefer something without any strings over a "good" and caring date.

Hmmmm, this is too hard!

Come ladies, help me! Which one do I pick? Please answer in comments, I need you!
And please, give me some reasons, otherwise, undecided as I am, except if there's a strong consensus, that won't be enough for me.